Ninety percent of Aging Life Care Managers use or recommend the use of “fiblets” by adult
children of aging parents with dementia as a way to ease anxiety and protect self-esteem,
finds a survey by the Aging Life Care Association™. When an aging parent with Alzheimer’s
is refusing needed care and when they can no longer drive safely alone are the two most
frequently cited situations when “fiblets” can be therapeutic according to the Aging Life Care
From our earliest days we are taught never to lie, especially never
to our mother or father. However, a survey of Aging Life Care™
experts reveals that telling a “fiblet” can actually be therapeutic
when adult children are faced with telling painful truths to aging
parents with a cognitive impairment such as Alzheimer’s disease.
Over 90 percent of Aging Life Care Professionals™ surveyed say
they have used or recommended the strategy to relieve stress
and anxiety and protect self-esteem of an elderly person. The
situation cited most in the survey by experts as an appropriate
and helpful use of a “fiblet” is when a senior is refusing clearly needed care or assistance at their home. For example,
telling an aging parent with Alzheimer’s that a paid caregiver is coming to their home for their spouse’s benefit or for
another concrete role can help them maintain pride and reduce anxiety.
Aging Life Care Professionals cite this situation as one of the most common and difficult faced by families. Aging Life
Care Professionals help families and loved ones deal with some of the most sensitive and challenging issues when
helping aging parents. .
BEAT THE HEAT: SUMMER SAFETY TIPS FOR AGING ADULTS
With temperatures already breaking 100° in parts of the country,the dog days of summer are here and it will only get hotter. This raises some concerns for Aging adults, in particular may be at higher risk of heat related maladies as they are less likely to sense and respond to changes in temperature. Additionally as we grow older, our bodies become less efficient in regulating body temperature. Certain health conditions and medications can also make it more difficult for the body to regulate its temperature or to perspire. STAY HYDRATED–Don’t wait till you’re thirsty to take fluids. Minimize caffeine and and alcohol. Eat lots of fresh fruit. Add lemon or lime to make water more palatable.
Keep your home as cool as possible, run the Air Conditioner during the hottest times of the day. Let cool air in at night.
Do errands the require going outside during the cooler times of the day. Get plenty of rest. Take a cool shower or bath.
Aging Life Care, also known as geriatric care management, is a holistic, client-centered approach to caring for older adults or others facing health challenges.Working with families the expertise of Aging Life Care Professional provides the answers at a time of uncertainty. Their guidance leads families to the actions and decisions that ensure quality care and an optimal life for those they love thus reducing, stress and time off work for family caregivers through:
*Assessment and monitoring
*Planning and problem solving
*Education and advocacy
*Family caregiver coaching
My expertise as an Registered Nurse for over 38 years enable me to assist families in many areas including:
Health and Disability, Housing, Families,Local Resources, Advocacy, Legal, Financial, and Crisis Prevention.
Enjoy your day, your family and your life.
The most important ways of maintaining accessibility to a home are:entrances without steps,single floor living,and wide hallways and doorways that can accommodate wheelchairs. Some of the other most common aging-in-place modifications are bathroom grab bars, higher toilets, curbless showers, widen doorways and added lighting. These modifications are wonderful for an aging mother or father. They can prove useful for everyone else to. A zero step entrance is good for a mom with twins in a stroller as well as for the elderly. Most people feel that making these additions might decrease the value of their house when it comes time to sell it. Actually it increases the value of the house. There are Aging Life Care Managers and Occupational Therapists who specialize in helping families adapt there present home, they can do a complete evaluation and make recommendations to make the home of your loved ones safer and enable them to stay in their home as long as that is their wish.
I was talking with a doctor the other day, I brought up erectile function disorder and the use Testosterone supplements. The physician responded by tell me this story. If you line up one hundred men who are over 80 and ask them if they are having problems with erections 99 of them will say they are, but what about the other one,”Well” said the doctor, “What is he? He’s a liar.” That just the way it is. We live in a society that worships the young, the beautiful and the sexy. There is so much pressure to be young, beautiful and sexy. So now we have the hormone which increases during puberty and then decreases slowly until men get in their 50’s and 60’s then it’s level decreases more rapidly. So what’s the answer: Age gracefully? accept the change in our bodies? or fight it and take testosterone supplements. The test results do not support the promise implied by advertisements for testosterone that using it. “will make you stronger and fitter.” There are over 3.0 million prescriptions writtenFor testosteroneIn 2016. Using testosterone for bodybuilding or normal age-related decline in hormones not approved and may be dangerous.