We live in a society that worships then young and the beautiful, we don’t want to get old, we put the elderly in warehouses. If we don’t like aging and, Imagine how we feel about death. Our society does not encourage constructive dialogue regarding mortality, death, and dying. Less than a third adults have a living will/advanced health care directive. Health care powers of attorney which let a trusted person make medical decisions for you when you are unable are very important for all adults to have. The best way to do it is to have an attorney do it there are some do-it-yourself options available for as low as $70. Instead of no fear, know fear. Just do it.